knowing that you are planning to give up your lovely cats...my heart is so..painful to hear that.
 
Nicole, life is very valuable.....no matter they're human or animals....
sure, everyboy will prioritise to choice to protect human, however, it's your life commitment to cat cat too once you decide to take care them when they're baby.  they ave no choice!!!
 
First, i appreciate your effort to try to ask anybody can support you.  However, I want to advise you don't do anything you will regret.  e.g. if no any one can help you, did you try your best to protect cat cat? e.g. spend some money (may be you just buy lesser new dress to your baby) to employ a part-time houseworker to clean up the home everyday, Or, any luxury living that you can give up a little and divert the resoures t.o any solutions to save the cat cat life? 
 
I can sure, your baby, your family will appreciate if you can really protect cat cat life FROM HEART.  Because your baby will get the return from god if you do this good thing.  please don't be selffish and find any excuse not to do that if because you NOT willing to give up a little luxury living. 
 
好生之德, 能惠及親友. thanks.